What Not To Say To People Getting Divorced

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I’m sorry to break it to you but, guess what? People are stupid. We really are. This becomes more and more apparent as we get older and go through hard times, as all of a sudden people don’t know what to say. Better yet, perhaps we don’t know enough not to say anything at all. […]

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The Ugly Truth About Divorce Envy

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Most of us have been there at some point. You’re knee deep in shit (sometimes literally) with your kids and reaching the end of your rope when your divorced friend calls and asks you to go for drinks. “No, I can’t go for fucking drinks because I’m cleaning up shitty diapers and doing laundry and […]

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What Not To Say To People Getting Divorced

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I’m sorry to break it to you but, guess what? People are stupid. We really are. This becomes more and more apparent as we get older and go through hard times, as all of a sudden people don’t know what to say. Better yet, perhaps we don’t know enough not to say anything at all. […]

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How I Dealt with My Divorce

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Divorce. The word no one likes to hear or discuss, second to the IRS. Whether you initiated the divorce or your ex did, it just feels like shit. After my ex asked me for a divorce, I had panic attacks, felt lost and alone and cried over every little thing. Damn you Lifetime Channel.  Just […]

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My Ex Dates My Spin Instructor

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A breakup is never fun. Ever. I guess unless you do the breaking up but, even then, it’s difficult. My ex-husband ended our relationship by telling me, in these exact words, “I want a separation and no marriage therapy” and then left the room to give me space.   “Huh?” and “What the fuck just happened?” […]

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